Friday, January 13, 2006

Sex and relationships - Are you multi-orgasmic?

Found this while surfing the net and reading other blogs. Its a piece at a women's site. I believe this is a must read for all, women and men alike. Please share your thoughts and your experiences, if you wish to.

Sex and relationships - Are you multi-orgasmic?
How to be multi-orgasmic?

Masturbation is the absolute best way for anyone, to learn about their bodies and what they like sexually. So, when you masturbate, stimulate yourself to the verge of orgasm, then pause, hold back, wait and continue in a slower more relaxed pace. Repeat the whole process, until you absolutely can't hold off any longer, then allow yourself to orgasm.

As you start to calm down then stimulate your vagina, and the area around the clitoris until you feel the waves building up, then move more directly to your clitoris. Use your fingers or a small vibrator such as the "fingertron"

The most advantageous position for a woman to experience multiple orgasms is the Woman-On-Top position. This allows her to initiate and direct most of the movements as far as how quickly and deeply she's penetrated and she can also control the amount of stimulation to her clitoris.

12 comments:

sic6sense said...

I want to see proof!

Actually, I agree that masturbation is the best way to discover your body, for women especially. Clit would work for some not others,etc. Its a pain trying to 2nd guess in bed.

Anonymous said...

I have thus been enlightened...

[V]landa said...

I'm printing this and pasting it on my bedroom ceiling, bathroom, wall, guestroom, car, boyfriends' car,boyfriends' bedroom, boyrfriends' parents' bedroom, err.. that's about it.

Thank you!!

Anonymous said...

Great knowledge .thank you!
If i have authority ill suggest schools teaching sex education and all that stuff (sex advise, sexual positions, sexual problems,etc......)why one have to learn about all that when its too late? one should learn about this through the peak of his/her sexual life.

sic6sense said...

i still masturbate. :))

vic said...

@ ylanda- you missed out the handbag, and the office.

@nurul - teach em at schools???? wait till you have kids, and i bet you will change your opinion! By the way, its never too late for you to learn :D

@ sic - Over the years ive come across many online who say they dont. (hmmm perhaps those ladies were lying to me)

It isnt a dog thats human being's best friend. Its our hands/fingers. (IMHO) :D

Matilda said...

msturbating is good to females as well esp to those singletons like me!

vic said...

multiple orgasms is commonly attained by some ladies, and not possible for others? True?

Am off for a beer, or two.

Anonymous said...

Talking about school, and that its too late to learn ,I was just kidding, cause they mentioned on the site u recommended that multi orgasm are usually in their late 20's & early 30's and im almost out of this range.


On my opinion sex is not a knowledge or a material to learn about its an instinct, just we have to free our minds, and be ourselves, forget about taboos during sex and we will be very satisfied.

vic said...

we should meet for drinks and talk more about this, Nurul!

Anonymous said...

Any time Vic ;)

Nict said...

hahahaha ... nice posting .. thats all i can say .. UN .. hahahaha